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Tell the AI what you're declining, why, and what you can offer instead. You get a clear, kind no in a few seconds.
Help me say no to this request.
A colleague in another department asked me to help plan their team's offsite next month. I can't. I'm covering for someone on leave and I'm at capacity until the end of the quarter. Write a short reply that: - says no clearly in the first two sentences - gives the real reason briefly, without over-explaining - offers one small thing I can do: share the planning checklist I used last year - stays warm, because I want to keep working well with them Under 100 words. No "unfortunately" and no apologizing more than once.
Why it works
Most hard emails get hard because we soften them until the answer is unclear. Telling the AI the reason, the relationship and what you can still offer gives it what it needs to be kind and clear at the same time. Banning the usual filler words keeps the no from getting lost.
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[Who] asked me to [the request]. I can't because [reason]. Write a short reply that says no clearly, gives the reason briefly, and offers [what you can do instead]. Keep it warm and under [number] words.
Variations
Not now, maybe later
Rewrite it as "not right now" and suggest a specific later time when I could help.
Saying no to someone senior
Rewrite this for my manager's manager. Keep it respectful and lead with the trade-off. Saying yes would delay [other priority].
Just the opening line
Give me three ways to open this email that make the no clear in the first sentence without sounding cold.
Based on: Microsoft, "Get better Copilot responses with great prompting". Last checked October 3, 2026.
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